For God alone my soul waits in silence; from him comes my salvation.   Psalm 62:1

When I was younger, I thought it was necessary to have an important role in life so that people would love me. I always tried to look my best, spending time on my appearance. I longed to be accepted by every group I came in contact with — other students and people at social gatherings. Yet it was difficult to please those around me. As a result, I felt more and more self-conscious, shy, and unaccepted. I desperately wanted signs from others to show that they considered me somebody important.  But while studying the Bible, I discovered God’s way of measuring. As I sought first to do God’s will, I became less self-conscious. Over the years I’ve gained more self-assurance. This seemed to happen in a natural way, just as I was changing my priorities. And instead of seeking approval from others, I slowly learned to extend the love and acceptance of Christ. Consequently, I became more relaxed and I no longer worried about my image or status. Transformed by the love of Christ, I’ve made many friends just by being myself.

Loving God, help us to rely on you for a sense of purpose and reassurance as we live each day. In Jesus’ name. Amen.