But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.  James 2:9–10

It’s easy to think that favoritism is a small thing. We’ll justify it by thinking that it’s our right to treat some people better than others or say things like, “Just keep this between you and me….” But no matter how we spin it, favoritism is a sin.  Every time we show favoritism; every time we discriminate, we are making a mockery of God’s creative genius. We’re essentially saying, “God, you did a good job with this, but not so much with that.”  When you lock eyes with someone—anyone—you are looking at a person who is so valuable and precious to God that he sent his only Son to die for them. Before exhibiting preferential treatment, remember how much they matter to God. And understand that they should matter that much to you.

Dear Lord, It is so easy for me to pick and choose the people I want to accept. But when I show favoritism, help me to remember that you love that person just as much as you love me. And help me to see the value they have in your eyes. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.