When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.  1 Corinthians 13:11-12

As I look back in the rearview mirror of my life, I think about teachers, professors, coaches, pastors and bosses. Sometimes I thought they were unfair. Sometimes they did things I would not have done. But every one of those leaders in my life was placed there by God. They might not have realized it, but God used them to mold and shape me into the kind of person He wanted me to become.  When we submit to the authority placed over us, we learn and grow as never before. And we can actually accelerate our own maturity through that obedience.  God is not surprised by your situation with that difficult boss. He’s also right there with you as you experience conflict with a parent, teacher, spouse, pastor or coach. Don’t argue, name-call or cold-shoulder the other party involved. Put those childish ways behind you. Remember, it’s all about submission. And when we submit to God’s ultimate authority, we find that it is easier to submit to the authorities in our daily lives.

Dear Lord, I want to be the best that I can be, and I know I can only do that by being obedient to You and the authority You’ve placed over me. Please help me to handle conflict with grace and maturity, so that through my example, I can help bring others to You. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.